Of manners and hedgehogs: Building closeness by maintaining distance.
This paper explores how the Japanese inhabitants of a densely populated urban neighbourhood negotiate proximity and distance in their social relationships. Based on ethnography of a community salon in the city of Osaka, the paper explores how topics and styles of conversation, modes of interaction b...
| Publicado en: | Australian Journal of Anthropology Vol. 29; no. 2; pp. 146 - 158 |
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Wiley-Blackwell
Aug2018
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