Transforming Seven Kinds of Relational Pain.
Bringforthist therapy extends the systemic practices of Interventive Interviewing and applies the relational focus of the IPscope. We elaborate upon these frameworks, highlighting their sensitivity to locally shaped needs of family members through the notions of relational preferences and relational...
| Publicado en: | Journal of Marital & Family Therapy Vol. 51; no. 3; pp. 1 - 13 |
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Wiley-Blackwell
Jul2025
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